If you are looking for some sites to help you with preteen/teen problems, they are listed here for you to check out. DO NOT AGREE TO MEET anyone you meet on these forums. They may not be teens on the other end. STAY SAFE ALWAYS. Use webcams to verify who you are talking to, so you know if it is another child, teen or adult.
http://www.glnh.org/talkline/index.html (Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgender National Help Line)
GLBT National Help Center Email: youth@GLBTNationalHelpCenter.org
http://www.thetrevorproject.org/
Please take the time to investigate the help lines, centres & online sites to help assist you through your struggles dealing with adversity. It's so important to remember that this moment in time that will one day pass in your memory, but suicide is permament and a continual trap in your loved one's memory.
Cyber crimes are astronomical with technological advancements coming at us at every turn. If you are a victim of cyberbullying, cyberstalking, etc. please visiti this site for further information on what to do & how to report this crime to the authorities.
http://www.katiesplace.org/report_cybercrime.html
Tips from Dr. Phil -How to Avoid a Bully
1. Don’t get into a fistfight with a bully or try to retaliate in other ways.
2. Don’t believe the insults about you.
3. Don’t overestimate how much power a bully has over you.
4. Don’t think that bullying will stop if you ignore it.
5. Don’t waste time in places online where bullies target you.
6. Don’t be afraid to think of new ways to solve the conflict.
7. Don’t believe you deserve to be picked on.
8. Do get real about bullying and how it makes you feel.
9. Do get angry, but keep anger under control.
10. Do write down how you feel.
11. Do learn to say and believe good things about yourself.
12. Do speak confidently when telling a bully not to physically touch you.
13. Do work on developing at least one good relationship with a classmate, neighbor and/or older child.
14. Do walk or run away if a bully tries to hurt you.
These pointers are to help those who feel helpless and reporting the bullying immediately is the best weapon you have to counteract the bullies. They can be beaten back and you are a valuable person. Do not let others have power over your feelings and it does get better.
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
HELP ME! I'M BEING BULLIED!
HELP! I'M BEING BULLIED
If you want to know how to report someone to youtube, police, and the FBI, please visit my site and print the information off for the future as a FYI or JIC (just in case).
YOUTUBE COMMUNITY
1. PRINT OFF PAGE ENTIRELY. You can do this by pressing down on CTRL & P.
2. BLOCK THE PERSON WHO WROTE THE COMMENT.
3. REPORT THE PERSON, VIDEO OR COMMENT through the You Tube Safety Center. [http://www.google.com/support/youtube/bin/request.py?contact_type=abuse]
4. DO NOT RESPOND. The communication between the two of you is over, so don't write mean words, call her names, desegregate her channel, or have anyone else write ANYTHING ~ NO
5. You ARE THE BULLY as soon as you respond & YOU ARE GUILTY if the bully decides not to respond, BUT instead REPORTS YOU.
6. You ARE THE BULLY if a friend writes anything on their page regardless if you asked them to or not. If they are truly your friends, they will IGNORE THE SITUATION COMPLETELY and carry on as they always do with you.
7. You ARE THE BULLY if you POST ANYTHING ABOUT THE USER.
8. DO NOT write anywhere for others to UNSUBSCRIBE another persons channel. You don't own your besties...so start by respecting your besties to decide for themselves what to do.....just as you have done.
9. DO NOT write [this user makes me sad], [this user hurt my feelings], [this user was mean to me]. You are really posting, "Go stick up for me. Go attack her channel. Go put her down."
10. Your loyalty to your friends has nothing to do with subscriptions ~ who subs, who unsubs, etc. If your friends aren't being affected by your bully, then their loyalty is to remain friends with you by doing your normal activities forgetting about the bully.
CYBER911 INTERNET BULLYING, STALKING
You can report anyone who is stalking you, bullying you or harassing you on the internet, but you MUST have the proof saved and printed out to prove this. They may request a file from your harddrive to see if any comments are purposely missing or deleted as NOTHING is fully deleted on the computer. The police can find 'ANYTHING DELETED'.
https://www.wiredsafety.org/forms/stalking.html
If you are being blasted with swears, threats, or harassment here are the online sites you need to report the crime to the police, cyber tips and then the FBI.
1. Read this site to know if you have a crime committed against you. http://wiredsafety.org/cyberstalking_harassment//index.html
2. Print off the comments and the channel page and put it in a duotang and give it to an adult (parent, teacher, guardian).
3. Call your adult will call the police station and ask them to send you an officer to report the harassment. They take this very seriously. You can also go to your police station, but they usually are out and you sit and wait a long time for them. Give them the duotang of printout.
http://wiredsafety.org/cyberstalking_harassment//index.html
4. Then your adult goes on this cyber crimes tips which is affiliated with the FBI and you read through there terms and conditions required before you report a crime to the FBI.
http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx FBI INTERNET CRIMES
5. Once your adult agrees to the terms (legal contract ~ against the law to prank), your adult can report your crime.
Do make constructive comments. "Instead of this..... you might want to try this..... on your next video" or "I tried that, but found this worked better...but you decide."
Don't bait anyone to visit another person's site to say anything related to "drama, negativity, meaness, and/or jealousy." I'm not referring to anyone on youtube.
The reason is conspiracy. You are guilty for every word that person writes because you engaged them to do it. Think before you write, certain words are flagged & suspend your accounts.
If you want to know how to report someone to youtube, police, and the FBI, please visit my site and print the information off for the future as a FYI or JIC (just in case).
YOUTUBE COMMUNITY
1. PRINT OFF PAGE ENTIRELY. You can do this by pressing down on CTRL & P.
2. BLOCK THE PERSON WHO WROTE THE COMMENT.
3. REPORT THE PERSON, VIDEO OR COMMENT through the You Tube Safety Center. [http://www.google.com/support/youtube/bin/request.py?contact_type=abuse]
4. DO NOT RESPOND. The communication between the two of you is over, so don't write mean words, call her names, desegregate her channel, or have anyone else write ANYTHING ~ NO
5. You ARE THE BULLY as soon as you respond & YOU ARE GUILTY if the bully decides not to respond, BUT instead REPORTS YOU.
6. You ARE THE BULLY if a friend writes anything on their page regardless if you asked them to or not. If they are truly your friends, they will IGNORE THE SITUATION COMPLETELY and carry on as they always do with you.
7. You ARE THE BULLY if you POST ANYTHING ABOUT THE USER.
8. DO NOT write anywhere for others to UNSUBSCRIBE another persons channel. You don't own your besties...so start by respecting your besties to decide for themselves what to do.....just as you have done.
9. DO NOT write [this user makes me sad], [this user hurt my feelings], [this user was mean to me]. You are really posting, "Go stick up for me. Go attack her channel. Go put her down."
10. Your loyalty to your friends has nothing to do with subscriptions ~ who subs, who unsubs, etc. If your friends aren't being affected by your bully, then their loyalty is to remain friends with you by doing your normal activities forgetting about the bully.
CYBER911 INTERNET BULLYING, STALKING
You can report anyone who is stalking you, bullying you or harassing you on the internet, but you MUST have the proof saved and printed out to prove this. They may request a file from your harddrive to see if any comments are purposely missing or deleted as NOTHING is fully deleted on the computer. The police can find 'ANYTHING DELETED'.
https://www.wiredsafety.org/forms/stalking.html
If you are being blasted with swears, threats, or harassment here are the online sites you need to report the crime to the police, cyber tips and then the FBI.
1. Read this site to know if you have a crime committed against you. http://wiredsafety.org/cyberstalking_harassment//index.html
2. Print off the comments and the channel page and put it in a duotang and give it to an adult (parent, teacher, guardian).
3. Call your adult will call the police station and ask them to send you an officer to report the harassment. They take this very seriously. You can also go to your police station, but they usually are out and you sit and wait a long time for them. Give them the duotang of printout.
http://wiredsafety.org/cyberstalking_harassment//index.html
4. Then your adult goes on this cyber crimes tips which is affiliated with the FBI and you read through there terms and conditions required before you report a crime to the FBI.
http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx FBI INTERNET CRIMES
5. Once your adult agrees to the terms (legal contract ~ against the law to prank), your adult can report your crime.
Do make constructive comments. "Instead of this..... you might want to try this..... on your next video" or "I tried that, but found this worked better...but you decide."
Don't bait anyone to visit another person's site to say anything related to "drama, negativity, meaness, and/or jealousy." I'm not referring to anyone on youtube.
The reason is conspiracy. You are guilty for every word that person writes because you engaged them to do it. Think before you write, certain words are flagged & suspend your accounts.
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